Articles filed under Anderson-Kleif, Susan
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Cooking, other productive activities can be a diversion from grief
Mar 25, 2023 6:27 AM - After Baheej died, I discovered cooking is a great diversion from grief. A diversion is not denial. Activities that are positive, interesting or productive to do, as I've mentioned before, can be a break from being sad.
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Create a soothing retreat you can go when overwhelmed
Mar 18, 2023 9:01 AM - I think most of us need a place at home where we can feel calmer. This is especially important when bereaved. Sometimes there is so much hurt and stress, we just need a welcoming retreat, one were we can relax a little.
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A midday stop for lobster proves love is alive and well
Mar 12, 2023 9:19 AM - With today's longevity, it's not uncommon to see three generations of families and older couples out celebrating. Indeed, love is still alive.
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Giving up our grief, 'getting over it,' is not necessary
Mar 4, 2023 6:00 AM - Is giving up our grief possible? Or even a good move? And what does this mean anyway? I think grief has many manifestations, time frames and sensations.
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Conversations shared and signs received from a dear one
Feb 28, 2023 10:51 AM - Saint-Exupery, the great French author, referred to "ami mort," dead friend. He believed the spirit of a dear friend abides with us and is a very potent presence. I agree with him, and I know there are others out there who would also.
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There are different types, and intensities, of grief
Feb 18, 2023 7:00 AM - I've written about the many sources of grief. There is also a complex mix of "types" and intensity of grief. As it turns out, grief has many faces, and many ups and downs.
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The value of self-reflection to make changes in your life
Feb 12, 2023 9:14 AM - One of the many problems we face with the death of a beloved partner or friend is losing our "sounding board." They helped to keep us on track, encouraging us to be our best selves.
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The mystery of unexpected noises and images
Feb 4, 2023 6:00 AM - Have you ever heard a strange or unexpected noise the middle of the night, or even during the day? I have.
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The past few years should make us aware of the many sources of grief
Jan 29, 2023 10:39 AM - Recently, a perceptive reader wrote to me about grief caused by prolonged separation from friends and family due to COVID-19. She said what she's experiencing is grief even though there's no actual death.
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Why it is beneficial to 'amuse thyself' when bereaved
Jan 22, 2023 11:03 AM - It's very important to cultivate the ability to "amuse thyself" -- especially when living alone, or retired, and certainly if bereaved.
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